with a few clicks on big love: many singles hope in dating portals on the internet to find the right partner. the search is often inconclusive. women, in particular, about 30 and women over 50 have the online flirtation. we have a relationship expert, asked why this is so and tell what errors you in the search on the internet should avoid. online dating is the source of hope. but how likely is it is with the help of a flirt platform to fall in love? ” if you don’t go out much more, all her friends already couple and they have a long job search on the internet, is probably the best opportunities, “explains single expert eric hegmann.” because it needs many contacts, in order to find suitable partners. “gender differences in partner search, but why are women, often difficult to find someone? men are in the online world there? ” no, “says the coach of the online dating service eharmony.” the binding partner, there is a slight frauenüberschuss. “hard won but because of the different interests. men prefer young women, but rarely family more and more young women writing in addition to peers and older men. there are many men prefer younger women response, shrinking the number of potential candidates for older women. but this is not to say that younger women will automatically have a better chance. although they are often contacted by men. the difficulty, however, is that women are about 30 times to find a father for her, or future children, many men but not tie. the younger you are, the more free you want. fertility right response? the number on the first date to reveal, is generally not a good idea, says hegmann: “the first date is just to find out if there will be a second. life is much too early. the man is applying for a job you don’t. he has the impression that it is mainly the child, not to him, he will not stay. ” expectations reduce the selection of young women have it hard, as the expert knows. the reason: “there are more and more educated women, a partner at eye level or above. but the market for such prince charming is becoming increasingly smaller as more and more women have better training. “but it is not just the desire for the same educational level, the search can be difficult. to reduce the chances of high expectations. according to hegmann young women free, the perfect partner to me. ” this is unrealistic. a partner can be perfect for each lebensaspekt. there are always a few desires “, he stresses. it is not just the sparks shower even if not all one hundred percent fit, you should contact, still a chance and meet again: “almost all langzeitpaare say that they have not, at first sight, in love,” explains hegmann, besides singles also couples advises. the so-called love at first sight is, in most cases, more sexual attraction. 50 year old know what they want – but that doesn’t make it easier for women to 30 in search of her prince charming, 50 years old and usually learned that these do not exist. the search result will be easier. through their experiences, you know generally what you want and what you don’t want to see. many are no longer willing to compromise. the choice of potential partners is shrinking. older women need not be shy younger men, therefore, it can also offer opportunities for elderly ladies, if you be shy younger men sail. ” keep quiet in younger men looking “, advises hegmann.” some statistics say that relations with an age difference of more than 10 years is not so long, but this account is not, of course, modern roles and beziehungsmodelle. if you are in love, age is irrelevant. “don’t wait for the man, the expert encourages himself to be more active,” men with 50 receive so many letters and women under 30. do not give up too quickly, because you just have many contacts, not only before they find someone they like, but also someone who also likes you. this is not with one, two or three. “so, as an important business card, it is important that m in kind and optimistic to be in effect. this is not only important for the correspondence. often it is worth it to take a critical look at their profile picture again. ” on the photo you should look appealing. this works best with a smile. many photographers – images are complete illuminated, but tense, “hegmann knows from experience. stay away from too much processing and tierfotos too much art and photography, he said. it could quickly tried and self indulgent. for images with your own pet, you need to be careful: “animals images always wake subconsciously jealousy, especially on which game you cuddle,” says hegmann. it would also animal of viewer quickly as partnerersatz felt it would stop. “search is the biggest challenge,” “i know it very ‘big’ sounds, but the search is the biggest challenge in your life. congratulations, if that happens by chance. in general, to a lot of effort, then still have to leave. just is different. you will therefore quiet all possibilities with which they offer: from the single party to dating service “, is the final advice of a single expert.