BDSM Life Style

Do You Make These Mistakes? Avoid Outing a Fellow BDSM Lifestyler

There are a few “sins” in the world of BDSM-outing a fellow lifestyler.  Doing such can have life changing effects on their vanilla life and the kinky life of the person who does the outing.  Effects on the vanilla life are obvious – someone’s job may be compromised, the custody of their children may be in jeopardy and even their marriage may suffer.  The effects of actually outing someone are not as drastic but they do carry a great deal of weight as well.  If you out someone, you may find yourself in a form of “>BDSM Siberia” because you could be banned from your local clubs, munches and even the community.  AND, if you are banned in your community, you might find yourself banned in neighboring ones as well.  Can you imagine how bad that would be?  Not being able to attend events in your area but in others too?  Not being able to even travel to out-of-state events because you cannot get a reference from the local ones?  Or, managing to get into something, only to find out that people there know of this ban?  Trust me, I cannot imagine loving my lifestyle as much as I do then someone taking it all away from me.

Now, the is an obvious way to out someone, by revealing that someone is part of the

Author Since: Jul 26, 2018