BDSM Life Style

Manners, Etiquette and Appropriateness When Interacting with People in the BDSM Scene

from the Submissive Guide Newsletter 5/24/14

One thing I learned while putting together the Guide to Your First Munch was that when someone goes to a meeting for kinky people, with the idea that they are entering a whole new world, they think that all the courtesies and manners they learned before are somehow no longer extinct. People often ask me how they should interact with others in a social setting when they have titles like Dominant or Master or slave or switch. That, in itself, is daunting to them. It scares them. They don’t want to insult them or appear ignorant. In truth, those same manners and courtesy that was schooled in you as a child work here too.

I can sympathize. When I first starting learning about

Author Since: Jul 26, 2018