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8 Male Erogenous Zones You're Probably Ignoring During Sex

It’s no secret that women have some very specific pleasure points on their body, and hopefully, your guy is no stranger to the clitoris and G-spot. Yet you might be surprised to know that the male body also has particular erogenous zones, or trigger spots, that—when stimulated—will make his orgasms more powerful and your sex life better than ever. “Orgasm is the release of sexual tension, and tension is created through gradually increasing and varying touch and pressure on his passion points,” says Claire Cavanah, cofounder of Babeland, a national chain of women-owned sex shops, and coauthor of Moregasm: Babeland’s Guide to Mind-Blowing Sex and Sex Toys 101. “Licking and biting with your mouth, then adding in heat or cold sensations by sucking on an ice cube or drinking hot tea will drive him wild.” To find out where to touch him to make his toes curl, click through our hot list. (Related: The 4 Simple Things You Need for Amazing Sex

The F Spot

How to find it: The frenulum is the spot where the glans meets the shaft on the underside of the penis just below the head, and the concentration of nerve endings here is sometimes compared to the female equivalent of the clitoris.

Make him go wild: “When giving him oral sex, let your tongue slide over that area,” Cavanah says. “With your hands, stroke it with your thumb while you move your fingers around the shaft.” To slowly build his arousal, go back and forth between stimulating his F spot and the less sensitive base of his penis. 

8 Male Erogenous Zones You're Probably Ignoring During Sex
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Soles of His Feet

Make him go wild: Start your foreplay by giving him a foot massage: Have a warm towel ready and then place his feet on a pillow on your lap. Use the warm towel to wipe his feet and get them warm, and then focus on this point by taking your thumb and gently rubbing it around this spot as a transition to a more erotic kind of rubdown.

The P Spot

How to find it: The male .

Make him go wild: Your best bet is to talk to your guy outside of the bedroom before you try to finger his anus so he doesn’t get any unwanted surprises. Try bringing it up during a romantic dinner by saying you love making love with him, and want to experiment even more. You might say that you heard stimulating his . One way to do this is to give some loving to his perineum, or the smooth strip of skin between his testicles and anus. The
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Thumb

Drive him wild: Many guys are heavily conditioned to focus solely on the genitals. “If you expand his capacity to have erotic experiences throughout his entire body, you can open up a whole other world of possibility for him,” Michaels says. The thumb is actually a sexy spot for a lot of guys. “To suck on a man’s thumb evokes sucking on something else, and can help him connect his mind and body during lovemaking. Start off foreplay by gazing into his eyes as you kiss his hands, and then suck on his thumb as a promise for what’s to come,” Michaels suggests.

Gluteal Fold

How to find it: The crease where the top of his thigh meets his butt is a surefire passion point. “It’s a sensitive area and could be the reason why some people like being spanked,” Michaels says.

Drive him wild: Ease into it slowly. “Use your hand to stroke him, run your fingernails over the area, then build up to a gentle slap,” Cavanah says. Or, when he is lying on his stomach, try kissing a trail down his back, over his buttocks, and then gently nibbling along this fold and flicking it with your tongue before moving on to his inner thighs.

Sacrum

Nipples

Drive him wild: “If you’re with a man who enjoys this, start by stroking around the aureole and gently tweaking the nipple with your fingers,” Cavanah says. “Lick around it and suck on it, increasing pressure and gently biting it. Nipples can be twisted and pulled to great effect, too.” She also suggests trying a pair of nipple clamps when he’s really turned on. It will keep blood flow in the area, increasing sensitivity and keeping them at attention. Or try sucking on an ice cube and then sucking on his nipples. “The contraction of his nipples due to the cold can heighten the sensations,” Michaels says.

Scrotal Raphe

How to find it: It’s easy to give his penis all the loving, but don’t leave his balls out in the cold. The scrotal sack is the loose skin that surrounds the testicles and that’s what feels good to stimulate. “The line that runs in the middle like a seam is the raphe,” Cavanah says.

Drive him wild: “Gently flicking the raphe with your tongue feels great to most men,” Cavanah says. “Let him guide you on how much pressure he likes, because the amount varies depending on the guy.” To get him really hot, sip on very warm tea and then flick your heated tongue over this sensitive area. He’ll lose himself in the new feelings, and novelty can make for more powerful orgasms.  

Author Since: Jul 26, 2018

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