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Coming Out to Friends: Time to Reveal Your Kinky/Submissive Side

Ever since realizing my role in the lifestyle, I have been faced with a lot of …decisions that I’ve had to make. In some instances, I’ve had no issues with making those decisions. But then there are those instances where the decisions I’ve had to make, aren’t always so easy to make. I’ve had to put a lot of time and thought before making specific decisions, thinking about how they would impact my life, not only at the time but later down the road. One of those major decisions that I’ve had to make is whether or not to tell my vanilla friends about my life as a slave.

Telling your vanilla friends about one’s activity in the When Someone You Love is Kinky” by Dossie Easton and Catherine Liszt.  I’ve not read this book personally, but I have heard great things about it and also, Kink Coming Out Day’s website. They can also be found on Facebook and Twitter. I highly suggest checking out these two sources before coming out kinky to your vanilla friends.

Coming out kinky to someone who isn’t is an extremely difficult decision and one that can’t easily be undone. There’s no way to figure out beforehand what kind of reaction you’re going to receive, so you can’t really brace yourself and know what to expect. I highly suggest before doing so, practice what you’re going to say(but not too much that it sounds rehearsed)and find a support system to help you make your next move.

Author Since: Jul 26, 2018