Orgasm on Command Training – Ultimate Goals and Variations
It can be quite obvious what the goal of orgasm on command training is but there are so many things you can do with that goal to make it interesting and exciting for everyone involved. I’m going to talk about a few things that I learned about while doing the research for my own training, which is still ongoing and boy are we having fun with it!
So what can you do with the training that goes beyond orgasm on command? It’s definitely not a one trick pony if you can use your imagination.
The most common goal is to orgasm by verbal command. This is a word or short phrase that triggers the orgasm. It’s not just the words though or it would work when everyone said them. If you’ve ever said, “it’s not what he said, it’s how he said it,” that’s exactly what works here. Your Dominant has a tone of voice that makes you melt and he’s going to learn to use that tone when training you to orgasm on command.
A less common way to cue is by a visual cue. Seeing your Dominant with that look in his eyes is hot but seeing a hand motion or a touch on the ear that means you will come can be hot too. Learning a visual cue comes after the verbal one. Another example of a visual cue would be seeing a certain number of fingers in an unusual pattern. I don’t think I’d do well with visual clues since I’m terrible at paying attention anyhow, but I’d love to see it in action some day.
I love the idea of a certain touch or tap on my arm would get me to orgasm. I imagine it would be like an electric shock to my system that would send me sky high. With touch it has to be more than one tap or touch or it won’t work well since people are touchy and we tend to bump into people randomly as well. It as to be a controlled touch pattern. Touching is definitely more intimate if you need that as a part of your experience.
I have to admit this seems like the most cliche, but probably well used form of orgasm on command training because it uses a similar principle to hypnosis. A countdown can be used a number of ways but again you have to remember that it isn’t just the numbers that matter, but the person saying them and the tone they use. So, anyone randomly counting down won’t work. It could be workable if you count down in another language.
Imagine orgasming when you hear a person snap three times, or a dog training clicker or a whistle. It can be done and if you are into pet play or animal play then it could be quite useful for your training. What other sounds do you imagine would work for your situation?
Different Orgasms for Different Strokes
Women will often tell you that we have more than one type of orgasm. I can list off at least 4 different orgasm states for my body. Now imagine if you could train words, sounds, touches or other cues for each one? It is possible with the right person and an intensive training routine.
I recommend that you start with your easiest orgasm to achieve before you try to move on to another one. I’d have to leave orgasm by penetration to last because that is the hardest for me to get. I can only imagine the exhaustive training that will go into that one if he wants to do that!
Just when you thought that one orgasm was fun you get trained to do multiple types! You will need to learn different signals for each orgasm that is trained. And reinforcing the others while you learn the new one can cause cross-confusion so it’s delicate work. With the right combination of trust and openness it can happen.
So what else can you do with orgasm on command training? If you are into public humiliation what about having orgasms at the bar? Just the power that your Dominant holds over you is strong enough to let it happen anywhere, at any time.
My Dominant has another submissive that is also interested in orgasm on command training. He would like to train us both to have the same cue and have our own personal cues. This way if we are all together he can make us both orgasm at the same time, or individually. Talk about a fun time!
Concerns of De-programming
Not all relationships are meant to last. So what happens if the relationship ends after you are trained to orgasm to his voice? Well, since the relationship ends it is very likely that you won’t feel his dominance or power over you any more and it will break the magic. It might not be immediate but without reinforcement of the training it will fade and you will go back to orgasming as normal (ie. without cues). This form of training is based on trust so if you no longer trust them that breaks the spell.