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Slut Is Such a Dirty Word and I Love It! – Types of Humiliation and Degradation Play

There are some pretty bad derogatory words in the English language. Ones then when uttered make people cringe and cry, scream and object (often loudly). So when I entered the BDSM), including erotic spanking, slapping, whipping, restraint, and other BDSM): prescriptions and proscriptions of clothing, even in public.

  • For women, a common example is being mandated to wear only bikinis or lingerie.
  • For men, forced feminizing and cross-dressing.
  • Both sexes may be expected to go completely naked, with decorative objects such as collars, diapers, bands, tiaras, and cuffs as the only exceptions.
  • Erotic sexual denial, including the use of a chastity device.
  • Wearing of external signs of “>
  • Public humiliation, in which the submissive’s friends or family, or strangers, are aware of or even witness the treatment.
  • Erotic objectification, in which the submissive is used as human furniture, such as a footstool.
  • Embarrassment.
  • Forced anal penetration, with dildos, anal plugs, and similar objects.
  • Cuckolding, a mostly heterosexual fetish in which the dominant woman has sex with a man outside of the relationship while the submissive man may or may not be present. If the man is not present, he might help her choose what clothes to wear when she meets the other man, or they might get together afterward so she can tell him about it, either while having sex or in addition to withholding sex. If the man is present during the cuckolding, he may or may not be allowed to pleasure himself while watching. The cuckolding may or may not be followed by sex between the couple. Another variant of the cuckolding fetish is that a heterosexual couple fantasizes that another man has already impregnated the woman.
  • The submissive’s having to ask permission to orgasm during sex or masturbation.
  • The submissive’s being forced to wear a gag or restraints on the body.
  • Forced masturbation in a humiliating manner.
  • Feelings of humiliation are key to many of those engaged in klismaphilia.
  • Feederism
  • Name Calling

    Being called sexually derogatory names in play and sex is often hot for me. I find it mildly embarrassing, sure. But that’s part of why I like it. Let’s take, for example, the title name, slut. Removing all the negative connotation of the word, how do you describe who a slut is to someone? They are sexually free, open to anything, willing to experiment, love sex, wanton, desired, desirable, indecent, wild. At least that would be my description. To be called that by KnyghtMare is affirming what he loves about me when it comes to sex.

    Can you embrace erotic humiliation? Is there anything listed on Wikipedia that you enjoy but never considered as a part of humiliation? Why and how so? I’d love to hear your comments.

    Is erotic humiliation a part of your play? Where does the line between humiliation and degradation exist for you?

    Author Since: Jul 26, 2018

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